My Standards are Not a Checklist, They Are a Reflection of My Soul
In a world saturated with blogs telling women what they should demand, I find myself looking at things differently. For me, the key isn't about demands; it’s about polarity, growth, and deeply rooted values. My standards are not a set of expectations I impose on others. They are the choices I make as a person. They are the boundaries of my own character. Standards as Character, Not Demands To me, being kind is a standard. Being authentic and expressing myself without a filter is a standard. I choose to be open, to accept people's flaws, their insecurities, and their unique brand of authority. Generosity:I pay for a man’s meal. I give my time and energy because I can , not because I am seeking a specific outcome. Intellectual Integrity:I refuse to swallow an ideology just to please a man. I will share my thoughts and be opinionated without the desperate need to "win" an argument. Radical Empathy:I choose to trust. I choose to give the benefit of the doubt. Though m...