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My Standards are Not a Checklist, They Are a Reflection of My Soul

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In a world saturated with blogs telling women what they should demand, I find myself looking at things differently. For me, the key isn't about demands; it’s about polarity, growth, and deeply rooted values. My standards are not a set of expectations I impose on others. They are the choices I make as a person. They are the boundaries of my own character. Standards as Character, Not Demands To me, being kind is a standard. Being authentic and expressing myself without a filter is a standard. I choose to be open, to accept people's flaws, their insecurities, and their unique brand of authority. Generosity:I pay for a man’s meal. I give my time and energy because I can , not because I am seeking a specific outcome. Intellectual Integrity:I refuse to swallow an ideology just to please a man. I will share my thoughts and be opinionated without the desperate need to "win" an argument. Radical Empathy:I choose to trust. I choose to give the benefit of the doubt. Though m...

Thelivuraiyum Mudivuraiyum Thelintha Neerudaiyaga Therinja Piragu, Munnurai Etharke?

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Life is a canvas painted by the choices we make. Every action, every word, every gesture is a brushstroke that leaves its mark. Karma is not a punishment, it is simply the rhythm of cause and effect. What you send out into the world, whether kindness or cruelty, will find its way back to you. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but eventually, the circle closes. The universe has its own laws, silent and unshakable. Our personal rules, our excuses, our shortcuts, they don’t bend the fabric of truth. It is not about thinking you are right; it is about doing the right things, the right way. Therefore, when you have chosen your path, you already know what your ending will be. There will be no need for explanations later, in heaven or in hell, for the body of your life speaks for itself. The story you lived is the evidence, the testimony, the introduction and conclusion all at once. And so, the story of your life is not written by chance. It is written by you. Every choice is a s...

The Rule of Thumb: Integrity Above All

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Every experience carries a hidden blessing. A rejection saves years of wasted effort, betrayal revealed before children spares deeper pain, a toxic partner exposed before marriage prevents lifelong suffering, a breakup halts abuse before it escalates, and humiliation before commitment teaches resilience. These are all blessings in disguise when the end. It is far better to stand alone than to compromise your soul for someone who isn’t right for you. If people leave, let them. If they cheat, let them. Don’t waste your energy on vengeance or destructive thoughts, evil gains nothing. What you do to others, you ultimately do to yourself. Choosing yourself is enough; no one else needs to validate your worth as long as you’ve acted with integrity. Growth requires deep inner work and personal transformation. If someone thinks your empathy was foolish, let them. If they see your kindness as weakness, let them. If they believe someone else is better, let them, not because you are lesser...

Nalla Manasum Nasama Pona Vazhkaiyum

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Phase 1 - Konji Pesida Vena Phase 2 - Snegitane Phase 3 - Thean Poove Poove Va Phase 4 - Sokkanuku vaacha sundari Phase 5a - Nilavuku en mel Phase 5b - Sothanai mel sothanai Phase 5c- Ninaike therinja manamey Phase 6 - Yengge sellum intha paathai Phase 7 - Vazhkaiye vesam ithil paasam enne Phase 8 - Ninaipathellam nadanthuvittal Phase 9 - Aaru maname aaru Credit: Google Image, Songs from youtube, #vazhkainagachuvaigal#aathi#usurumattumtamicham#

The Cold Dragon and The Golden Phoenix

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Credit: My original narration, edited and enhanced by ToStory AI with image.

The Scariest Person on Earth: The Danger of Unconscious Evil

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We often imagine "evil" as a movie villain: calculating, deliberate, and open about their malicious intent. But there's a different, more pervasive, and infinitely more dangerous type of harm: the person who doesn't realize they are evil or, at least, they don't grasp the true nature of the destruction they cause. In the complex landscape of human interaction, it is easier to live or deal with a completely, openly evil person than one who operates under a thick layer of self-denial. Here’s why the latter is truly the scariest presence on earth. The Predictability of Known Malice When someone is genuinely, unabashedly "bad," they offer a strange kind of clarity. They are who they are, and they make no pretense to maintain a false image. They couldn't care less about what others have to say or think about them; they have no worry about being judged or having a bad reputation. They don't perform. They are scary, yes, but mostly predictable. You...

The shortest love story: He Wanted the Spark, She was the Sky - A Chemical Imbalance

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He saw her across the crowded room, a flash of vibrant color in a sea of monochrome. For Liam, it was an instant hit, a jolt of pure dopamine. His brain fired with the urgent message: "This feels good, I want more." He imagined the thrill of the chase, the quick gratification of her smile, the immediate pleasure of her attention. He felt it viscerally, a burning desire to "take" her interest, to cash in on this sudden, intoxicating feeling. His mind raced, already anticipating the next high, the next dose of excitement. Elara, meanwhile, was simply enjoying the hum of conversation, the warmth of shared laughter with her friends. A quiet sense of serotonin permeated her evening, a gentle contentment, a feeling of "this feels good, and it's enough." She was contributing to a lively discussion, giving her insights, feeling connected. Her happiness wasn't a sudden, fleeting burst, but a steady, pervasive glow that reached beyond the immediate momen...